Wednesday, July 20, 2011

G-tubes, hospital stays and more

Hopefully ya'll were able to begin to wrap your head around the ketogenic diet process.  Along with this transition we have made the decision to get a feeding tube, g-tube, for Stephen. We came to this decision because on this diet he will need amply liquids, much more than we can sit and give him in a day.  This will be a great solution for us to be able to get liquids in him quickly when needed.  It will also provide us with a mean to get medicines in Stephen if he has a seizure so we aren't playing catch up the next day.  We are still planning on feeding Stephen by mouth and giving him liquids by mouth, the g-tube will just be for supplemental fluids when needed.  
The tube will go right into his stomach and be able to deposit liquids directly to him.
This is what the tube will look like and for the first few months he will have a tube sticking out of his side.  Once he has completely healed from this surgery, we will be able to get a button placed over the tube and he will no longer have to have the tube sticking out. 
Lily Gray refers to this as a balloon hole, thinking that once you open it, it will start to inflate like a balloon :)

So when is all this happening?
This Friday, July 22nd, we will go to Duke Hospital and have the surgery to get the g-tube placed. Stephen will be in the hospital till Saturday.  Then on Monday, July 25th we will go back to the hospital and stay for the week most likely, to start the ketogenic diet process.  During this week, we will be transitioning Stephen and monitoring his levels and also getting intense schooling on the diet.  

This is a big week for us! Oh yeah, and someone has a birthday tomorrow... :)




Keto 101

So as many of you know, we are about to begin the process of transitioning Stephen to the ketogenic diet in hopes to help control his seizures.  We are very excited and thankful that this is an option for us but we are also nervous because this is a HUGE undertaking and change. 


So what is the ketogenic diet?   
The diet is a high-fat, adequate-protein, low-carb and low-sugar diet (similar to the Adkins diet) that has seen great results in the improvement of seizures for kids whose seizures are not being controlled by medicine. 
Many of you know that Stephen currently lives off of carbs.  Most of Stephen's meals are composed of potatoes, noodles, rice etc. because they are easy to mash into a good consistence for Stephen to eat.  This is where the big change comes in! Once we take carbs out of Stephen's diet we will have to be creative in ways to make his food.  His portion sizes are also going to change dramatically. Currently, Stephen eats three times a day, just like everyone else- depending on when he is hungry and what we have going on that day. His typical meal I would say is the average size for a kid around 8-10 years old but that is all about to change.  The average meal size dramatically decreases on the diet because everything is so high in fat and protein. 
This is a sample meal consisting of 2 pieces of bacon, three cherry tomatoes, and 1 cucumber piece and the drink is a whipping cream and butter mixture.

Another big change for us with this diet is that we will have to measure everything out that Stephen is going to eat to the 100th milligram to ensure that he is eating the same amount of carbs. proteins, and fat ratio at each meal. He will continue to eat three times a day but they will be the same three times every day.  The object is to get his ketone level to stay completely level through out the day (similar to a diabetic trying to get their blood sugars level).

As if all of this didn't seem like enough to keep up with, there is also carbs in almost everything you put on or in your body. We have had to change toothpaste, sunscreen, lotions, shampoos, wipes, laundry soap...you name it we've probably had to change it! 

We are happy to make any and all of these changes if they help control Stephen's seizures.  We will be on the diet for a least 3 months to see if they help control things.  After three months if we haven't seen any improvement we can take him off the diet and start transitioning him back (fingers crossed it works though)  

We would love to eventually be able to cut down on medications!  

Please pray for us during this transition and pray that Stephen will do well on the diet and that we see improvement in his seizures.




Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Up Up and AWAY!!

Last week Stephen, Julie and I got the amazing opportunity to go up in a hot air balloon.  Lily Gray and Yogi were at the beach for the Flournoy family beach trip so they missed out but have no fear they will be around next year to join in on the fun.    


We got there early Monday morning because we wanted to beat the crowds and the heat, lucky for us no one else was there so we got to watch them set the balloon up. 


Getting the basket ready. 
Blowing the balloon up

Almost ready.
Stephen LOVED this part.  It was so awesome to be able to watch them set up the hot air balloon!

Stephen getting excited to go up! 
Almost ready. 
The balloon is up, we drew quite a crowd. 
This hot air balloon is the world's only handicap accessible balloon! Amazing!!
And we're up!



It was the perfect morning to go up in a hot air balloon
Stephen had the BEST time up there. 


We were so excited after we got down that we wanted to do it again the next morning. 

While Julie and Stephen loved every minute of being up in the balloon, it wasn't quite Danielle's thing.  She was a trooper though and made it all the way through. We have a video that we will post later this week of while we were up in the air! 

All in all it was an awesome experience. The man who owns the hot air balloon, called Serena's Song, has a special needs daughter, Serena, who also has severe CP.  Serena was non communicative and non verbal until the age of 2 when they had the opportunity to take her up in a hot air balloon, it was up in the balloon we she started to laugh and squeal for the first time.  Ever since then they have been traveling the US, giving other specials needs kids the same opportunity and experience.  Here is their website if you want to check it out. 





Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Hello hello anyone out there....

Ok so I know its been ummm....6 months since our last post. Somewhere between holidays, spring break, end of the year parties, Danielle going back to grad school and summer starting we haven't had the time to keep up with the blog but that all changes today.  We are officially back in business.  While I don't have anything exciting to tell you today, I can entice you with great pictures of Stephen, Mom and I riding in a hot air balloon this week.  It was such an amazing experience and as soon as I get my camera cable fixed, you all can see it! 


To do list for tomorrow:
  - Get a camera cable


Until then, be happy to know that we are back and excited to share with you all of our upcoming adventures. 


love. love. love. 

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Is it December already?!?

This year both of my kids got character awards at school!!  Stephen got the courage award from Cary Elementary and Lily Gray got the respect award from Lacy Elementary! Danielle and I were able to watch Stephen get his award and celebrate with him and an ice cream sandwich! 
Stephen getting his Courage award! :)


Stephen's award

Lily Gray's award




Also big news this week- Lily Gray got a retainer put in on her bottom teeth.


Lily Gray showing off her new metal






It was been a whirlwind week already, this weekend we have lots of fun Christmas activities planned possibly even getting a tree! :)

Thanksgiving Round 2

On Friday we headed to my family's house back in Burlington to celebrate Thanksgiving with my side of the family.  My brother and his new wife Beth, announced that they were moving to Montreal in the early parts of 2011 because my brother is becoming the general manager of Alcon Canada! :)  While this news broke Lily Gray's heart because Aunt Beth is now her new favorite member of my family, she quickly got over it when she realized that Uncle Alex and Aunt Beth were giving out Christmas presents.  The kids got a new gumball machine- which Lily Gray and all of her friends LOVE, they got a fabulous Woolly Mammoth stuff animal-that they both adore, and some fun light up holiday necklaces and glasses. 


Lily Gray with her new love- Arburn Tex Flournoy (aka Woolly Mammoth!)

Gobble Gobble

Thanksgiving came and went way too fast this year!  This year we hosted Thanksgiving at our house, Lily Gray had her cousin Kate come over for a play date/sleep over on Tuesday night and then they both went over to their Uncle Bob and Aunt Karen's house where they got to have another sleepover. 


On Thursday, Stephen, Danielle and I made a quick visit to a friend from the church, Walter.  Walter lives in a rehab center not too far from us and also has cerebral palsy.  Not only were we there to wish Walter a very happy Thanksgiving but also to wish him the happiest of birthdays!  Walter turned 63 on Thanksgiving! We had a great visit, showering Walter with delicious candies and birthday balloons.  


Thursday afternoon everyone arrived at our house to celebrate and eat Turduckin (Yogi's choice of course).  Danielle and Stephen took the opportunity while everyone was eating Thanksgiving dinner to go on a little shopping adventure to Wal-Mart.  Typically heading to a place like Wal-Mart is a nightmare with Stephen, trying to get around everyone and squeeze him down the toy aisle is so frustrating that many times we just give up- This time it was different! We have discovered the seceret that no one is a Wal-Mart in the middle of the day on Thanksgiving and all the aisle have been widen in preparation for Black Friday.  Danielle and Stephen had the best time cruising up and down the toy aisles.  They grabbed some batteries and got to work making all the toys come to life- Stephen loved every minute of it!!  It also told us exactly what toys Stephen wanted for Christmas.  Danielle then stashed all the toys Stephen loved and the ones that Lily Gray wanted so we could find them again in the midst of Black Friday may-ham.  This year was my first experience with Black Friday, Danielle and I headed to Wal-Mart around 10:45 to stake out our belongings.  What an experience it was, I can't believe all the crazy people!  We ended up with WAAAYY more than we expected to get but at such great prices, how could you say no??  :)  All in all we had a great Thanksgiving with family and friends- Lots to be thankful for this year.






As promised here are the pictures of Lily Gray's famous Gobble Bieber Turkey that she created for school.  It also sang Justin Bieber's "Baby" when you pushed its back.